Voices
This is one of many scattered papers that Paul gave me, my psychologist. It's called
THE CHARTER OF PERSONAL .. and more or less says these things:
- You have the right to decide how to conduct your life, setting goals, dreams and priorities.
- You have the right to have values, opinions, emotions, and the right to respect yourself / a for what you believe, regardless of the opinions of others.
- You have the right not to justify or explain your feelings to others.
- You have the right to tell others how you wish to be treated / a.
- You have a right to express yourself / aea say "NO", "NOT SO", "I do not understand" or even "does not interest me." You have the right to take the time to formulate your ideas before you actually take place.
- You have the right to request information or assistance to live without negative emotions associated with these needs.
- You have the right to change your opinion, to make mistakes, and sometimes act illogically ... to accept the consequences.
- You have the right to love you even if you're not perfect / a, and also, if it happens, to do less than you can normally capable of doing.
- You have a right to have positive and satisfying relationships within which you feel comfortable and free to express yourself honestly, you also have the right to change or to end relationships that do not meet your needs.
- you and the right to change, improve or develop your life in any way should you decide.
Respect your rights whereas the others enjoy the same rights.
I have to admit that it is difficult to implement 70% of these rights, or at least I have not succeeded yet.
may seem trivial or perhaps too selfish ... but some also express the truth.
Each of us must be free to say and do what you really want, though it often goes against the people.
Lately I understood something that most of all I feel bad, and most importantly makes me live my life so badly.
items.
Yes, inappropriate comments ... in the family, occupational, or people who are or have been part of my life. Those comments that do not
IRESC not avoid, although you should ... those comments affect you even though they should not.
I can not, is stronger than me. If a colleague speaks ill of me with another colega, and I come to know ... unfortunately I can not be indifferent and frigates. This
to put an example.
And I realize that this affects a lot wrong in the conduct of a lifetime.
But it is one more opportunity to grow naturally, I take as such, in life you never stop to learn and even more ... you never stop to learn from their mistakes.
really strange moment of my life, stormy. All
pulling against me.
In ten days exactly I will be in Wood for the double gig ... I hope to spend three days in complete serenity and carefree ... and to recharge the batteries in a good mood.
all for today, I have just a moment to update me more time to comment all your blogs this week .. I have been quite a while back. Sorry! -.- '
A hug to everyone from the Captain! ♥
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